Sistas, Sometimes Its better to Walk Away

Do you feel safe in Your Church? Or do you feel demeaned, ridiculed, even endangered? Does Church teachings feel like a Domestic Violence Relationship? Double Standards, Christ's Love for Men, 'Slavery and no worth for you, Woman?' Well, you're not alone,

but, there IS an answer...

do like I did, Walk Out and Don't Go Back. Believe me, God will send you Christians who won't abandon you for Saving your life, Especially your Children's. You'll be Free, and know something, God is still on the Throne and Will not forsake you, because HE doesn't want His women, treated like disposable trash either. ;)

My favorite Good Bye Song, to the Misgynist's Churches. And I couldn't Sing it better myself.

FOR YOU SISTAS OUT THERE THAT HAVE SAID, OH NO WAY, AND STOOD FIRM ON YOUR RIGHT TO 'NOT BE A PUNCHING BAG, A PENIS ASHTRAY, A MOUSE WHILE HE ABUSES THE KIDS, AND YOU WALKED OUT AND THE MORONS WHO PREACH HATE OF WOMAN IN JESUS'S NAME--CARING MORE FOR 'DOCTRINE' THAN HUMAN FEMALE AND CHILD LIFE--

SING IT WITH ME, REJOICE, WE ARE FREE! [though, uh, don't go a destroying homes or anything...kind of a double message there, but the Being able to Breath and the being free from the lies and fake promises/concern by those you KNOW are not only toxic, they could care less the pain you're in...when you are Away from that, it feels, a lot like this song}

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=41LG2k-ivVY

good article on this issue, see below

http://eaandfaith.blogspot.com/2010/02/does-your-church-feel-safe-to-you.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+EmotionalAbuseAndYourFaith+%28Emotional+Abuse+and+Your+Faith%29

Find a Church, that Preaches the Worth of Women...there ARE a 'few' out there,

for support, go to the side bar of this blog, look under Christian Feminism, which is,Christians, who Yes, believe in Human Rights, and the Whole Bible,

not injustice, male entitlements and the twisting of the Word to profit Men at the expense of women and children.

And if your Church [and other toxic or not really loving support] condemns you because you left an abusive relationship, take this advice,

sometimes, its Better to just Walk Away. {warning: to the Puritans, ouch, out there, uh, yea, not like a Christian sugar syrupy sweet video, but, the Song is good, so if you're offended by what is Real, in contrast to the FAKE, don't watch--if you have a Sense of Humor and aren't like uptight and all in that whole Pretense Bunk---Enjoy! Oh, yea, I listen to Classical, Rock, Rap and Christian music too, if the song is good, I'll post it.}



For those uh, People who don't GET WHAT so many women are Saying,

you Preach God's Love, you Tell Women to just put up with it, to Pray, but YOU GO HOME, WHERE YOU ARE SAFE,

SHE LIVES, IN HELL, NOT FOR BEING CHRISTIAN, NO,

BUT BECAUSE SHE WAS BORN WITH A DIFFERENT GENITAL THAT MEN...MOST LIKELY HER KIDS SUFFER TOO,

HERE' S THE REALITY, OF SO MANY LIVES OF BRUISED HURTING WOMEN, HOW DARE YOU, HOW DARE YOU, CARE MORE, FOR TITHES, DOCTRINE, THAN THEIR LIVES, THEN PROCLAIM, YOU KNOW

GOD'S LOVE?

THEIR REALITY---TO THE WOMEN WHO ARE DYING INSIDE, YOU ARE NOT ALONE, I, WE, MANY DO UNDERSTAND, YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH TO GOD--YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, NO MATTER WHAT 'HE' MAY TELL YOU OR DO TO YOU...IF YOU ARE IN DANGER, LEAVE, CALL A SHELTER, BE SAFE,

WE SUPPORT YOU.

{THE quality isn't that great--but THIS, NEEDS TO BE PLASTERED ON EVERY SINGLE CHURCH DOOR--DO YOU HEAR ME BROTHER LUTHER? }







Jane