WIFELY SUBMISSION, PEDOPHILE FANTASY AND CHILD ABUSE--THE HATRED OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD

Wow, you know, when the Holy Spirit illuminates-heals, He just blows me away sometimes. Allow me to explain,

I have, for YEARS struggled with the destruction of my 'soul' from child abuse [my mother hated me, literally, not an understatement] and the repeated destruction from men, whom I looked to for love, and then the church, the patriarchy-misogyny then the politics and well, you name it, I looked and sought. However, in the meantime, not too long after my first marriage [after I became a Christian, I had been common law married before to a very abusive man when I was barely 17, having run away from home] and being in a very 'ultra-conservative' religious community, the Seeds of Hate, Hate of Soul, germinated in me, and I became, just as hateful and prejudice and bigoted as those haters of souls over me, though mine was covered in a sweet fake veneer of 'religion', Christianity and well, just flat out deceived. And it grew from bad to worse...and that is what Jesus means when he says, they receive the Word with joy but they fall away after temptation, Because their hearts have no 'root' in them, or their hearts are 'hard', or they receive the Word [Jesus] with joy and live for a bit then the Cares of this world CHOKE out the Word[Jesus] and they eventually fall away...again, a shallow-hard Heart,

but then, the Good and Honest Heart--receives Jesus, the Word, and KEEPS the Word, and bears fruit UNTO COMPLETION.

The heart is like a garden, in the OT, God says to break up the fallow ground. Now, we, We can't 'reform' an evil heart, God has to give us a new one...or recreate one, not sure how that works but I know, from my experience, at least, that for this to happen, its like an onion, layers upon layers have to be peeled away, to Expose, the true state of the heart,

guess what, it ain't too pretty.

Now, this is what I didn't realize, the Soul, is a bit different....I always thought they were sort of the same, I'm not so sure how that all works, like the soul, spirit, heart, and all that, but I had been lead to believe, or Did believe, that God hated my soul, that well, He wanted to save my soul but it was something that He really hated...therefore, my soul had to 'die'. The teachings, especially women, hear from the church, is that we are to Die to Self. That, to the abused child-woman-and yes, sometimes man, sounds more like this:

'your soul is bad, therefore your soul has to die, before you can be accepted by God'.

For women, under misogyny, their 'soul' is not only bad, its downright EVIL, to the Misogynist, and therefore, is either, non-existent because its only the man's soul that matters or it needs to be destroyed, ERASED, by whatever means necessary.

And the thing is, the Word, even when it is used to elevate, to the Damaged Soul, that same Word, has the power to reinforce the murder of that soul. The thing is, its so difficult to understand this...until someone has been in that position...and what happens, is then that soul, becomes turned all upside down, with that evil heart, and then like an abused child, lashes out, and learns, to hate Itself, AS WELL AS HATING EVERYONE AROUND IT, even if they 'love' underneath that love, that 'hate' is always there, breathing, just waiting for a chance to get out and do its destructive work. That is what it means, when Paul says, pray that they will see and be delivered or no, deliver themselves OUT OF THE SNARE of the devil who has TAKEN THEM CAPTIVE, to do

HIS WILL--SATAN'S WILL.

NOT God's will, no, God is NOT IN THE BUSINESS OF DESTROYING SOULS,

that is, Satan's business.

And where does it begin?

IN CHILDHOOD.

Jesus said, the Kingdom of God, is children, forbid not the children to come unto me FOR SUCH IS THE KINGDOM OF GOD. He said this a couple of times, along with WOE TO THOSE WHO OFFEND ONE OF THESE 'LITTLE ONES' WHO BELIEVE IN ME.....

Why, WHY did Jesus say this?

Because Satan, begins his destruction of the 'soul', our Personhood, in Childhood, and he does so, quite brilliantly, through the most deceptive guise there is,

PATRIARCHAL RELIGION.

Why Jesus said, if YOU being EVIL know how to give Good Gifts to Your Children, how much More the Heavenly Father give Good Things to those who ask-seek Him?

I recently wrote, two essays on the wifely submission and the relationship to the pedophile fantasy, see here and here:

http://homesewersneedleworkersunion-hsnwu.blogspot.com/2009/11/wifely-submission-and-its-relation-to_19.html

and

http://homesewersneedleworkersunion-hsnwu.blogspot.com/2009/11/wifely-submission-and-its-relation-to.html

What I didn't realize, is just how much, this relationship and that of the HATRED OF CHILDREN, THEIR SOULS, is

IDENTICAL.

The 'myth' of pedophilia is that its a twisted love for children, NOT, its the HATRED OF CHILDREN, THE HATRED OF SOULS, it is the very nature, of Satan himself. Because its about Lording and Holding Violent Power [or violence through coercion, fear, intimidation, manipulation, etc] over a Child's Soul--for the aim of, Destroying that soul and sucking the life essence out of that soul to be Worshiped, by Force.

Its 'forcing' worship, where God doesn't force Himself on Anyone, but gives Free Will, Satan on the other hand, doesn't care about Free Will, nor does he care about the soul, he hates the soul, the soul created IN THE IMAGE OF GOD.

Religion, that uses FEAR, [John, perfect love cast out all fear] is not of God, its of Satan, its that 'you worship me while I destroy your soul or else'. You love me while I destroy your soul or else. That isn't God,

that is from the pits of hell, but its paraded around as Being 'God' all over the place...and its very subtle, very hard to discern, because we learn this, from childhood, some of us way more than others. We see God, as the soul destroyer who really hates us, He just 'tolerates' us, and wants to beat us into Erasure, only to form these pods who worship him without question.

That is the ultimate lie of Satan, to turn us against God.

And the thing is, when we learn to internalize [by no fault of our own] that soul-hatred, of our own souls, by whatever means we have learned that, we learn, we hate, all other Souls. This is why John says,

if you hate your brother-sister, the Love of God is not in you, because God is Love, love of souls. Not love of evil, not Love of wickedness, but love of souls, God loves every soul. God loves every soul so much, that he gave his only begotten son Jesus to Die for our souls, to REDEEM our souls, MALE AND FEMALE SOULS, from being

DESTROYED.

Abuse, be it child abuse or patriarchal abuse, is really, nothing more than the HATRED OF SOULS. To hate women, because they are 'weaker' or thought to be weaker, probably a better term, is the same as hating children,
who works with children, births children? WOMEN,

the hater of souls will abuse-hate children and women, but will also lust after women and children, including sexually, in one form or another. Because the intent is to destroy the soul, of woman, of child or of child.

Forbid them not to come unto me for Such is the Kingdom of God.

To hate a child, to hate a child's soul, to hate a woman,

is the very same as

HATING THE KINGDOM OF GOD.

One cannot, hate woman, hate child, verbally abuse woman, verbally abuse child, physically and/or sexually abuse woman, or child, and be at the same time,

part of the Kingdom of God, because one cannot Hate the Kingdom of God, and try to Destroy the Kingdom of God at the same time.

One cannot 'hate' the Kingdom of God and 'love' the Kingdom of God both,

you're either one or the other.

Now the thing is, then, what is the Love of the Soul? Is it, permissiveness, NO, because permissiveness allows the soul to destroy itself,

but is it then, harsh rigid abuse, to 'mold' the soul, NO, because then the soul can be destroyed, why God says, Fathers, love your children in the nurture, NURTURE AND ADMONISHING OF THE LORD.

God does both...he nurtures, RESTORES the Soul, and he Admonishes, the Soul. When God chastises, [Hebrews] he does not for 'his own selfish pleasure' but FOR OUR OWN GOOD.

NOT to destroy or tear down our soul, but to preserve our souls.

Love, edifies, protects, nurtures, builds up, guards, it does not tear down, render to shreds, beats down, nor erases...

now, does that mean, God won't destroy souls? NO, but which souls does he destroy [and is it really God who destroys souls or SIN that destroys souls?], those Souls that 'reject' Him and His Grace, His Redemption,

so in other words, God is not in the business of destroying souls, to die to self, is not to 'kill your soul' or allow others to 'destroy' your soul or to 'erase' your soul...that isn't what dying to self is, but it surely has been mislead to be that--by those very soul assassins in Religion [and in secular], this is what it means, when Jesus says,

I have come, so that they may Have Life, and have it more Abundantly.

Often many [and I have] believed that means, life here on earth--no, it means, the life of the soul. King David says, God restoreth my soul,

so, for women, and children, to learn that their souls are hated, by abuse, rejection, verbal abuse [words kill] and all other forms of abuses, in the name of God--is really, the work of Satan.

Because if one hates their 'own soul', they will hate other souls as well.

and vice versa....you can't hate others souls and love your own, it don't wash,

because Hate, is the poison, its like a cancer--it destroys. This is why, when many come to God, with those hearts that have been bruised by abuse, their souls poisoned by hate--many do fall away or have a hard time in conversion, because all that poison has to be dealt with, AND if they are still in those environments that in the name of God claim that they are 'less than' or 'only tolerated' by God,

what they are really doing, is what they did when they forbid the children to come unto Jesus, and Jesus said,

forbid them not, for such is the Kingdom of God.

IF the church does NOT address and confront this ugly 'deception' of evil, the hatred of souls, of children, of women, it will grow and poison,
a little leaven leavens the whole lump...

a little 'law' leavens the whole lump
a little 'hate' leavens the whole lump
a little 'poison' poisons the whole batch

the Great Falling Away, I believe, is the falling away from the Love, from the Grace, that leavening, that 'law' and 'hate' and 'hate of souls' and 'poison' that causes people [when they choose to totally give in to those] to fall away from the Love and Grace of God,

because they choose

hate over love.

God is Love, no, not hedonist love, not permissive license to sin love, because love doesn't want souls destroyed,

but God is Love, in that He, created the 'soul' in His image, and He loves each and every soul, and desires not, that any soul,

perish.

He loves the 'soul' so much, the soul of man, the soul of woman, the soul of child, that He gave of himself, His Word made Flesh, and took all our hate and poison, sin, so that we wouldn't have to perish...so that we could be Restored, our Souls, to the image, He first created them To Be.

Souls that are loved and that love...

its not about lordship and hierarchy and some souls count more than others, no, the 'least' is the greatest in Heaven, time and time again, Jesus says this....the last will be first,

to KNOW HIM, is not just to be religious, to follow 'law' oh no, its to KNOW HIM, because HE FIRST

LOVED US,

to Love Him, Obey Him [which is obeying Love] and to Love one another, to Love the Souls, of others,

one cannot hate or work to destroy a 'soul', and know God,

no way....the two simply are opposite.

And that includes, hating one's own soul--

Our souls are like a Mirror, they Reflect, what we see and are, if we 'hate' and only see hate, of ourselves we will reflect that onto others, because if we see God, as hating us, we will reflect that onto others,

what our souls are, is what we reflect.

Mirror, is the image, of who we are....souls restored and beloved, in Jesus,

or souls, destroyed and destroying others, in Satan.

The Gospel of Jesus Christ, is ALL ABOUT, SAVING 'SOULS'.

If, we hear a different gospel, a different Jesus, if we hear that its normal in God to 'hate souls' or to have permission or license to 'destroy souls' for whatever reason,

that isn't God....that is, none other, than Satan.

May the Holy Spirit, shed light to all who read this, and please, pass this forward.

[I will reword this, but for now, just writing, what the Holy Spirit showed me this morning and has been for some time now, just now, its like coming together, like a puzzle.]

Peace, Love,

Jane

WIFELY SUBMISSION AND ITS RELATION TO THE PEDOPHILIA FANTASY II

[AM CROSS POSTING THIS FROM A POST I WROTE ON ANOTHER BLOG--for now, I am just writing what I can here on this topic, eventually I will write it in full-edited and more academic format, under WIP-CW, because I'll be incorporating other essays, research that I've written and done on this issue.]

Some ‘light’ on the anti-feminist women targeting other women,

from studies of polygamy and ‘Islamic feminists’ who actually are traditional who are ‘tokens’ or what Mary Daly calls, ‘painted birds’ and who are utilized by men to ‘oppress other women’. [the painted birds can also be women in political power, right or left, who say they are feminist but are clearly anti-woman centered, they are more male centered, only way they can 'survive' in that world, etc., or women in secular, e.g., CEOs, etc., or women in militant nationalist societies, so forth.]

The reason so many women are anti-feminist, is because like the women who live under Muslim laws, who have to Return and LIVE under the brutal ‘dictatorship’ of men or both men and systems, the only ‘empowerment’ they DO have is over children and over one another, therefore, this is why, child abuse by women is extremely high in patriarchy and also, woman to woman abuse.

Its a form of denial, to ’survive’ without going batdung insane, literally. Its a form of ‘rationalization’ that is done to be able to ‘cope’ with the living the daily reality of being SUBJUGATED TO A SUB-HUMAN STATUS. It simply is against HUMAN NATURE [and not talking flesh here] survival instinct that is in all of us, that HUMAN DIGNITY that each of us owns. For women who have been ‘conditioned’ since birth or through fear, religious conditioning, intimidation, always with the threat of violence [and hell is a threat of violence btw], to believe that it is their ‘lot’ to suffer, to be treated with contempt BY THE DICTATES OF GOD, as they are taught,

then sure, they are going to have to somehow, rationalize that, within themselves, to fight down that ‘consciousness’ that ’something, isn’t quite right’.

When ‘free’ women [see note at bottom] REMIND these women of their ’status’ by either word or by their living, the oppressed woman feels resentful, MISERY LOVES MISERY. Why, should this woman, be free, be treated like a human being rather than a DOG, while I’m, good and obedient [due to fear and guilt] and being subjected without complaint [at least, not vocally, eventually they'll begin to believe their rationalizations because its the only 'dignity' they can find within that psychological hell] and therefore they lash out. By golly if we have to live like this, then ALL women will have to live like this,

and that is why, you see the brown shirt SS women policing and beating and sending those ‘free women’ to their rapes, gang rapes, prisons, in many patriarchal theocratic countries, or where there are nationalist wars, etc., or in yes, churches. [why so many subjugated women WILL TURN a blind eye to their daughter's screams and cries when husband is raping her in the next room--and this is rampant in patriarchal marriages, Christian and non-Christian, kid yourself not--because truth of the matter is, the whole 'subjugated woman into 'child-woman' is really, just an 'incest relationship, not a marriage between two adults, its the playing the role [by being forced] of the Pedophile fantasy. I’m convinced of this and why we are seeing so much of this being pimped out in sermons across this country, the ‘child-wife’ doctrines, and they can call it comp all they want too, bottom line, its men, who really want ‘child’ brides, they can’t have them ‘legally’, so they turn the adult woman, into a mere, Child. Why you have the co-dependent helpless ‘child’ woman, totally submissive, subjugated, non-resistant to any sexual advances/or demands, just as if she were three or four years old, Think about it, seriously. And why, where there is a huge stress on the ‘entitlement’ to Rule and Lord over women, there is a huge incidence of child sex abuse, rape in marriages, forced pregnancies, financial controls forcing economic dependency and just blatant ‘helplessness’, the man doesn’t have a relationship with an Adult-consenting woman, but with a woman with a woman’s body, but a Child intellect, that HE has molded as his perfect ‘child victim’.

And what do ‘children do’ when they are abused, they lash out and sexually act out towards other children, where we get ‘bullies’ from.

Its the same psychology, and when you look at the most patriarchal societies in our world, what do you see? Brutal forced marriages and sex slavery of ‘little girls’, women discarded once they hit a certain age [such as 25] and forced into prostitution [fact, in Iran, the numbers of prostitutes is ludicrous, why they allowed 'temp marriages' which is really just prostitution with a piece of paper], and why, women then, have only one means of any sense of ‘empowerment’ whatsoever, other than being a suicide bomber, and that is, policing other women and girls. This is also why slavery is rampant in these societies, and the worst ’slave owners’ are in fact, woman.

The oppressed child, becomes the oppressor of other oppressed children, child-woman that is,

because emotional growth is stunted, mental growth is stunted, because like slaves, they have not had the opportunity to ‘become full human beings’.

The only power, as a Human Being they arrive at, is yes, bullying others like themselves. And if they do a good enough job, they then can become ‘the painted birds’ or the ‘token’ women, who then, the men will utilize, to ‘police all the other women’ and they -men-will set her up, as the Icon, the role model for all other girls [children who are not yet women-child] to model after…

and any deviance of that, is publically scolded, and who better to do that, than another ‘woman-child’.

Its difficult to ’shame’ a confident woman who knows her ‘dignity and worth’ AS A HUMAN BEING,

its not that difficult, to ’shame’ a woman-child, into obedience, when she has been conditioned especially by other women, to accept her lot, and to accept her ‘lack of humanity’ and her role as ‘child bride’.

Now the question is, [I'm undecided on this one until I do more research] if this trend in This country, has always been this way, or if its increased, due to the obsession of pedophilia that has been increasing in porn. It seems to me, the ’submission zealots’ increased in the 80s, blaming feminism, but what I find interesting, it was in the 80s,

when the soft porn in media, became more prevalent, therefore, we have a rape culture as well as a pedophilia fantasy culture, and now, its polluted the church.

Well, anyway…not as detailed as I would like to format this–because there is a lot of credible facts that back this up, but it would take essay form, and would need to be in research format. [I have the studies here, but to write on this, just a summation, would take, at least, twenty to forty pages--but this is a brief overview].
[NOTE]
on Free Woman,

ever wonder why, God chose, the Free Woman, rather than the Bond Woman, the ‘forced child slave-sex slave’ to be the line of redemption?

I believe, God shows us, HIS view, of how He sees what marriages and relationships should be, if it were His way–and He clearly,

rejected, the subjugated, forced, slave-wife–the child bride, who had no right to resist or say no,

for the woman, who not only was a strong confident woman, but who did say, to Abraham, in DISAGREEMENT, ‘let God judge between you and me’.

Peter says we are to follow Sarah’s example,

Sarah, was no ‘child bride’, she was not playing the role, of the pedophile’s victim. And neither, should we.

The teachings, that dictate to women, to be mere ‘girl children’ for their husbands to grope at will or to rape, to control, to abuse-they can call it ‘discipline’ but its abuse–and just the idea of ‘disciplining an adult woman’ is proof, that they are psychologically pedophilia in nature, etc., are more along the lines,

of the teachings, that were common in Egypt in that era, in Babylon, and among all those regions, you can find these studies in studies of culture/laws in ancient Mesopotamia. [and many cultures still live by these customs and mores and misogynist attitudes and the more patriarchal and subjugated the women are forced to be, for their 'gods', the more the forcing of very small girls into marriages [rapes] increase, and in fact, in Iran, Komenie (sic) wrote in his book, that its perfectly legit for men to ’sodomize their infant daughters’…and yes, he did write that, I read it when I was in a relationship with a Muslim, years ago [I also read the book on Sharia law and the Hadiths].

Bottom line–its about control, and power. Obsession with power, it has nothing to do, with Christ, with Love, with the Gospel, nada,

it has to do, with men, who have utilized, quite cleverly, the gospel texts to create environments that will allow and/or tolerate their pedophilia fantasies and power obsessions for ego [by creating the perfect woman-child slave and sex slave] and still have the ‘appearance of godliness and legality’.

And in fact–its interesting, just how similar the doctrines, are to the doctrines of the Roman Empire under ‘paganism’,

and women who are in those situations and who have Internalized the abuse/misogyny and ‘religious conditioning or cultural’ are adopting to the power abuses the only way they know how–by policing or trying to police, and justify, their position, by lashing out at the free woman,

just like Hagar did to Sarah.

And the more they lash out, its clearly obvious, the more, they have been subjugated into being that ‘child-woman’, and its really sad,

meanwhile–the men, drink their sodas and lap up their power and entitlement while their ‘painted birds’ do their dirty work. [and as far as some of the really 'anti-woman' feminists go, its the same thing there too...why you will find the anti-mother sentiments with a lot of the feminist camps, they are, in fact, the painted birds, of the other side of the patriarchal camp, the materialist camp...another issue, another time].

In closing, THIS IS WHY, women’s only spaces, women’s culture [including in the arts], women’s clubs, women’s missions, have been attacked, eroded by attacks by the misogynists and pedophiles and why today, many churches, are coming against more and more, women to women friendships even,

if they can erode and destroy women’s solidarity and completely isolate her, then

they can then, destroy her, completely. And that is why, when women are more isolated, the deaths increase,

then its welcome, to Femicide and Gendercide. And then, what is ironic,

all those ‘anti-feminist’ women, when they like the nameless concubine find themselves being raped and gang raped and tortured and killed with the rest of their ’sisters’ they soon find out,

all that ass kissing and playing the role of ‘child’ to the ‘daddy husband’ didn’t do a thing for them–instead,

it reduced them to the child-property, to be bartered, sold, and yes, disposed of.

Just ask the women in the Congo–a nation, that is, Patriarchal, and 80% CHRISTIAN. [for those of you who may not be aware of what is going on in the Congo–men have been gang raping girls and women, as young as three years old, in THE THOUSANDS, AND THOUSANDS, shooting them in the genitals, disembowing them, multilating them, with total impunity,

and why? Because in the patriarchal society, the ‘child-woman’ bride-wife, was nothing but a ‘man’s property’ and when war breaks out–she’s game baby,

she ain’t got no HUMAN WORTH–and these CHRISTIAN MEN, throw their ‘child-bride’ wives out on the street once they’ve been raped and gang raped, because they don’t want DAMAGED GOODS,

that, THAT, is where the ‘anti-feminism’ will get you. REST ASSURED, OF THAT ONE.

Jane

Solidarity,

P.S. I will later, sometime after the holidays, will write some on what brought me to this conclusion, and its not what you might think,

its not from feminism, but rather, from the writings of Christian women, back in earlier times, in This country. They believed in traditional values, but what they 'deemed' as 'submission' then is Totally different, from what is being preached across the board today, in this country, in our nation's churches,

and That, that was what got me to thinking--the women then, who were Very chaste, pure, and sober and diligent for Christ, were in no way, powerless, completely 'dependent' on husbands, even in the days when women were most likely to be illiterate, due to working on farms,

the mentality of women then, while they may have lived in patriarchal societies, was nothing like this 'woman-child' mentality that I have witnessed today, NOR were the teachings in the church to women, anywhere like what we are hearing today. [not only that, MEN in those days, WERE EXCOMMUNICATED from the churches for all sorts of sins, no way, would many men today, be deacons back then, no way...and I found this information out by reading older books from the 40s and 50s and even 30s, on church organization. [even billiards then was deemed as sinful--and it simply wasn't tolerated, and men, were expected, to behave in certain manner--while in the secular world men may have gotten by with all sorts of abuses, in the church, it was frowned upon and yes, rebuked. Men were expected to be gentle and Christ-like--not arrogant masters thumping Bibles demanding their 'lordship', not from what I have read, not that abusive men didn't exist then, they did, but the 'church' was no 'refuge' for them, not like the church has become today that is].

And women then, were looked upon as the 'moral gatekeepers' therefore, while there were obviously, as we know, strict limits to women's power, where 'religion' was concerned, women had a lot of power--not like today, where women have been reduced to mere 'children' in women's bodies, with the emphasis being taught that they should strive to always be sexually available to their men and obedient and helpless and well, just down right stupid [sorry, but its true] and naive, to boost the 'male ego', to 'honor his LORDSHIP' as if he were a 'god', [and where it really is different, is then, women were the highest percentages of MISSIONARIES, where today, most churches across the board, don't even HAVE A MISSIONS ORIENTED VIEW FOR 'SINGLE WOMEN', but instead, they have 'purity virgin balls that parade virgin girls around on display, as if we were back in the days of the TEMPLE OF ARTEMIS, seriously, and from the sermons I have heard, its always 'ladies in waiting for their 'God given daddy, er, man', do they know where the term 'ladies in waiting' came from? Ladies in Waiting, were the PROSTITUTES, the KEPT WOMEN, in the days of the Protestant boom in Europe--for the knights, who of course, worked for the king--men who felt 'entitled' to that you know, on the side--what an Insult--for a Christian woman, to be called, lady in waiting. But it reveals just how little respect the church in the West has for women these days--and I believe, women who did the majority of mission work and relief work in the early days in this nation--would be APPALLED, at the garbage spewed from pulpits to radio shows to t.v. evangelism to books, and they'd be more appalled at the behavior of so many women, who have willingly let themselves be dumbed down and turned into, yes, mere children.]

while daily demands of work were the reality for women then, they were expected to RULE over their households and to RULE THEM WELL, to be able to rule, one cannot be a CHILD,

and in fact, Charlotte Perkins Gilman and other women [Christian] wrote on what they saw, was the demise of the Christian woman as an ADULT--once capitalism and industrialism took sway, the corruption and the turning women into 'silly little child creatures'.

They were right--and we are seeing the reality of this today. On numerous Christian [patriarchal] boards, I have seen somewhat 'theological' discussions where men are concerned, among the women, its been discussions about dandruff to how to submit to unwanted sex with a drunk to clothes. It was like reading discussions between junior high school girls,

not women.

Compared to the writings and diaries of women back in the 1800s and 1900s, a HUGE difference--women then, were WOMEN,

women in the church today, are more like CHILDREN. [no offense but its true--not of any fault of their own, but by conditioning, of what I feel is a culture, that has taken over the church--a culture that is not Christ like--but is more about creating the environments of abusive power and yes, pedophilia, be it forcing women into 'children' or eventually, marrying younger and younger women--and its about power, power and lust and the want to rape, its in our culture--and its most surely, taken over, the churches in the west. [not all churches, but I would say, most of them]

Jane

Wifely Submission and Its Relation to the Pedophilia Fantasy

after reading another yet duped woman commenting on a Christian blog today, and having debated whether or not to just really go off [I decided not to, because I would have offended and well, so many of these women just really have no choice but to cope with what they are in, but anyhow],

it made me think, about what it is, that really just for some reason, doesn't 'sit' right about this 'submissive child-woman' garbage being spewed in the religious establishment of today,

not only that, but having read, so many historical writings by Christian women in the past [who were NOTHING like the submissive 'children' we are seeing today, not anywhere close], I knew, something was off,

but I just couldn't put my finger on it.

But today, after reading her comment [and a few others like her, and these were somewhat moderate mainstream, not the ultra 'patriarchal' fanatics], it became clear,

what is Wrong, with the DISTORTION OF THE SUBMISSION 'DOCTRINES' being 'pimped out' to women today in our modern day churches.

And I will be doing an essay on this, on the blog....[after I gather some stats and so forth, which hopefully will be this week].

The topic is,

Wifely Submission and Its Relation to the Pedophilia Fantasy

Oh yea, I went there,

because Pedophilia and especially rape of children, has become an EPIDEMIC within, the Protestant churches and homes, its not just a Catholic problem. And its one that I believe, the 'blame' doesn't just fall on the men,

it falls, on a lot of women, who have allowed themselves to be "Reduced to 'children" to play out a Role, of a submissive child, rather than a full grown woman Adult, to her husband [as taught by the churches] therefore,

two things result. One, the fascination and temptation of 'pedophilia' becomes more normalized as the woman plays the role, rather than of the 'adult wife' but of the 'little girl with daddy, the Authority', therefore normalizing the power imbalance, meaning, rather than the marital relationship AND marital bed being one of consenting adult to consenting adult, it then becomes, the authoritarian adult to the 'non-consenting child' because children, cannot give full consent--they simply do not understand the ramifications of their actions or how they are being manipulated.

The second thing is, is that by Reducing the 'woman' into a 'child', you then have, a child, raising children [and Charlotte Perkins Gilman and other Christian women in the 1800-1900s said the same thing and they predicted the demise in creating the 'woman of folly' or 'woman who is child' for future generations], anyhow,

to think, that a child--will then be able to expect 'respect' from their Equals, the other Children, is an oxymoron if there ever was one. Not only that, but when the children, particularly girl children, see the Mother Adult--acting like a 'child to her authority daddy husband--that girl learns one thing,

not HOW to say NO. And abstinence teaching, why bother? IF a girl child grows up to see her mother as a reduced child with no boundaries, how then, will she learn boundaries? She won't, and in fact, this is Probably the reason, why it is well known, boys in high school [or junior high] want sex, hit up the Christian girls, they simply won't say NO, because they've been well indoctrinated, by watching the Child-Mother, never say NO to a man.

And, the 'child-mother' creates an atmosphere of disrespect towards 'women' and 'mothers' especially, Instead of respecting the mother as the adult-authority figure in the home, the children see her as yet, just another peer, or worse,

maid servant.

Meanwhile, daddy is the only one, who has any authority or respect in the home--and since daddy is the only Authority--if mother child don't say NO, then, if daddy oversteps boundaries with the children,

they won't say no either, more so, than children who grow up in homes, where the mother takes the Adult role, rather than the 'child' role.

I will be doing some research on this, what triggered this analysis however, was reading, several of the Christian women, say, "how they like that their husbands tell them everything, they practically don't have to think or do anything',

not only is this absolutely absurd, [and god forbid, I fear for their children's sake], its down right dangerous. Not only that--

its clearly not scriptural. God said, Thou shall honor thy father AND MOTHER,

not, mother-child and not father authority with no mother.

And I couldn't help but think, reading this woman's response, as horrible as this is, but I couldn't help think,

'is she a woman, or a child, and if a child--then, it wreaks of an incestuous relationship'. Something, is dreadfully wicked about that and I in no way, believe Anywhere in scripture, does God, condone or support, such a thing.

Proverbs 31 is evidence, that women are to have AUTHORITY in the home, they are Adults, NOT CHILDREN,

and with this emphasis on this males as 'authority' and women as dumbed down children wives, it makes me question,

do these men want wives, or do they want, to play out their fantasy, of pedophilia?

And I hate to say it, but I believe, the answer, is the latter,

especially with the increase of Christian men [and the churches who ARE DELIBERATELY DISOBEDIENT TO THE COMMANDMENTS WHERE PAUL SAYS, TO EXCOMMUNICATE ANY MEMBER GUILTY OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY] who are using porn,

and the porn industry today, as well as the 'soft porn' industry today, is clearly, evident, of pedophilia and the increase of demand of girls, its in the fashion [adult women dressing up like six year olds], its in the media,

and today, its being spewed in our Churches, using scriptures, to create the environments, conducive to, yes,

Pedophilia.

I'll be writing more on this later,

Solidarity,

Jane